"Someone bothering you. You get angry. Something is going against your script and throw yourself in front attack" (...).
"Now try to loosen the grip of your control and allows more freedom to power. I'm not asking you to agree with all or to accept it. Just change the tactics of control observation . Try to note that more than control. No rush to shake his head, contradict, argue, persevere in your opinion, direct, criticize. the situation gives the possibility to be resolved without your intervention active or endurance. And stay, if not astonished, amazed probably. Something paradoxical happens:
By relinquishing control will get even more control of the situation than you had before.
An impartial observer always has more advantages than the immediate participants. Is why I says, alkylate.
When you look back, you will be convinced that your control went against current (...). Your intervention was unnecessary. What they regarded as obstacles, in fact they were not at all. The problems are resolved happily without you knowing.
(From the book space variants of Vadim Zeland)
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